Can I Remove a Restraining Order?
Removing a Restraining Order in Sussex and Warren County, NJ

How do I get a Restraining Order Removed in New Jersey?
First, it is important to make a key distinction between the main forms that an restraining order can take. Basically, there are two types of restraining orders in New Jersey, temporary and final. When seeking to remove a final restraining order, this is a different process than the act of dismissing a temporary restraining order at a final hearing. If a final restraining order (FRO) is entered against you, you must petition the court to have it removed.
When the Victim Requests to Dissolve a Restraining Order
In New Jersey, the parties cannot even agree to have the restraining order removed without an order from the court. In the case of a voluntary dismissal, the plaintiff (victim) must come to court and request that the restraining order be removed. This person must put their request on the record and sign documents attesting to this fact as well. The victim must also acknowledge, after speaking with a domestic violence counsel, that their request is entirely voluntary and is not the result of being coerced.
Removing a Restraining Order with a Motion to Vacate
The court can also remove the restraining order for “good cause” under New Jersey law. To determine whether good cause exists, the court will consider the relationship between the individuals, the number of times (if any) the defendant has been convicted of violating the restraining order, and the age and the health of the defendant. Things like whether there is alcohol or drug abuse, whether there are other instances of violent acts with other people, and whether the defendant has gone through counseling will all be considered.
Your request must also be submitted in good faith, for no improper motive. The court will consider whether the victim consents to lift the restraining order, but it is just one factor of an extensive analysis to determine if good cause exists. The court will also specifically note whether the victim is still afraid of you when making its decision.
In addition to the above analysis, the court will also consider whether there has been a substantial change of circumstances between the two parties. A reconciliation, for example, is a good start to showing this factor. Other changes in circumstances that may justify removing an old restraining order include the two parties moving on in new marriages or established relationships, the fact their their shared children are grown up, and/or the desire of both parties to move on with their lives.
Once the motion is filed in writing with the court, the motion must be served on the Plaintiff. They have an opportunity to object in writing and appear for the motion hearing in court. Sometimes they will consent to the order being removed. If they object, the court will listen to testimony from both parties and all of the arguments of counsel and then make a ruling. Either the restraining order will remain in effect if the Judge denies the motion or the motion will be granted and the final restraining order (FRO) will be removed.
Frequently Asked Questions About Removing a Restraining Order
How long should I wait before filing a motion to vacate a final restraining order (FRO)?
We usually recommend waiting at least five (5) years. You have to show that there has been a significant change in circumstances since the issuance of the original order and that is very difficult to do if no time has passed.
Can I contact the victim to see if they’ll dismiss it?
No, that would be a violation of the restraining order.
Where should the motion be filed?
In the county in which the final restraining order (FRO) was issued.
How long does this process usually take?
It usually takes a few months. You have to order the transcripts of the original FRO hearing if they exist, draft the motion, file it with the court, serve the plaintiff, and then the court needs to schedule a court date for the hearing.
Get Help Vacating a Restraining Order in NJ
To learn more about removing a restraining order, contact our skilled New Jersey restraining order lawyers serving Sussex, Warren, Hunterdon, Somerset, and Morris County. We can help you present your case and ensure that the process is handled right to increase the chances that your order will be removed. Call us today at 973-755-1695 for a free consultation.
Legally Reviewed By:
Travis J. Tormey, Esq.
Criminal Defense Attorney | New Jersey
